Platonic Porn?


As much as I dislike the word “porn” and as much as I wish to replace it with the more plausible “erotica,” men (always men!) keep using it. Porn here, porn there, porn ahead, porn behind, porn to the left, porn to the right, porn everywhere. Wondering if the Google robots won’t give me a ticket for this enumeration…

Terminology aside, I will never be comfortable to be treated like an object, to be looked at like a mere mean to appease the lusts in men. Who would be happy with this type of depersonalization? Any lady wants to keep possession over her human characteristics, over her individuality. Just like any man. Possession! This is the key word here. I need to be my own master and, once my mind is safe with this feeling of self-control, then I can start sharing my possession with whomever I wish to. On my terms!

I renounced my maiden name and gave myself to my hubby on my terms, I chose to have my kids on my terms, I chose my career on my terms, I renounced it on my terms, I chose to have an adult business on my terms. And I keep repeating “on my terms” here and there, ahead and behind, to the left and to the right, everywhere, only to convince myself, to calm down my worries, to make sure that unsuspected risks may be dealt with on my terms. Wow, totally wishful thinking of my control freak side. Am I capable to control everything? Do I want to? Will this make me happier? Happiness is the next key word! It’s much more powerful than possession. Because by possessing you tend to control, then by controlling you exhaust your soul to the winds of worthlessness. But the state of happiness can only be achieved by sharing your possessions, by giving from what you have, by seeing the joy of the receiver. Happiness is another soul’s reflection in your eyes.

I chose to give all my possessions to Don and his happiness in receiving them made me happy beyond words. I also chose to share my love with him on the web and the feedback brought confirmation and confidence to my soul. It’s a nice way to age, and survive every day’s load of chores and stress, when opening the laptop early in the morning to read the heartful comments and kind compliments that Gentlemen from far away have sent you over night. It is even better to read that couples are getting together because you inspired them with your total vulnerability dare, with your exposure of intimacy — how else can I call my choice to make public such moments as me pleasing Don, he pleasing me, us making love like bunnies… err… he corrects me: like the bunny and the donkey.

Well, his brutal honesty humbles me more: it turns out that I share my life with a donkey, with MY donkey. Thus, being MINE, I took possession over him. Interesting how giving away will bring back a multiplied harvest of the seeds that you imparted.

Wondering if Plato was referring to this kind of love, excluding the sexual relationship, the flesh contact, like in sharing your intimacy on the web. If this is platonic love then platonic porn may sound like: here you go, mankind 😛 , I share all my intimate moments with you, but only in words and images, not in touches and juices. My bunny fluids are the exclusive of my donkey lover, who shamelessly gave public access to every hidden corner of our romance.

Is this platonic porn? Asks the not-so-shy bunny riding on her donkey.

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6 thoughts on “Platonic Porn?

  1. Doris
    What you do in my eyes is not porn. Porn is where people who have no personal connection perform sex acts. The actors in porn movies are not in love, but only doing a job. They don’t care about the personal feelings for the one their having sex with. It becomes to them, only sex, and gives them a very cold outlook on relationships in general. I’m sure many of these people have trouble relating to others, and care more about what their feeling than the feelings of the others their performing the acts with. When I view your photos, and videos, I can see the true love you feel for Don. Watching the newest video of your wonderful loving caressing playful blow job shows how truely much you love Don. There is so much care in how you handle his penis, and how slowly you build his pleasure so he feels every touch. I can even see how Don pleasures you during this beautiful moment of love by placing his hand over yours. Nothing is forced, it’s just pure giving to each other. In porn films, the men place their hands on the womans head to force their penis into the womans mouth, this makes the men control the action their feeling, and takes away the freedom of the woman pleasuring them. I did this only once with my beautiful lady during a blow job, and I never did it again, because she hated me forcing her. I took away her freedom to please me, and the pleasure she felt in giving such pleasure. The women of porn films are not only viewed, but treated as objects of lust, but you can never be. You can only be viewed as a lady teaching others how to love each other, and it’s too bad more have not discovered this wonderful place to learn. Giving is what God wants from all of us. You , and Don sharing this wonderful give of a couple in so deep a love is a present more of us need share. Thank You for all you are doing with this beautiful EROTICA, and may more couples discover this wonderful site of LOVE not PORN. All my Love to You, and Don. Bob

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    1. Hi Bob,
      Just like you, and unlike the mainstream, I see a huge difference between porn and beautiful erotica. Love is much more than a physical sexual contact (or contract?), it’s above all a spiritual binding between two souls. Eroticism is the natural consequence of love and one of the most wonderful ways of sharing your feelings with your soul mate.

      Thank you for your lovely comment.
      All platonic love to you and your lady,
      Doris

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  2. Hi Doris
    What you are doing is not porn. Don and you are a loving couple that happen to like to show your love making to adults that like to see loving couples in action. Besides I love to look at beautiful ladies naked.

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    1. Hi A.J.,

      Yes, I know, you are perfectly right and I agree with you. There are more and more women thinking like you do, and me and hubby btw.

      I just got mail from Rohana – editor of Raw Women emag. She wanted a piece of “me” for the first edition. See it here: http://rawwomen.com/

      Hope that you’ll enjoy looking at the raw ladies – I’m one of them now. Hee hee.

      Love and thanks for the comment,
      Doris

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