Performing in Pleasant Porn


This could sound like backstage gossip. Men should prepare for unexpected words and women reading this will know that they were always right, and not alone! “Vanessa Belmond, Former Porn Star ‘Alexa Cruz,’ Tells Her Story On ‘Date My Porn Star'” — and I quote: “She said she got chlamydia several times as well as tears to her vagina and anus. (…) “When you’re on a really strong pain killer, it’s a lot easier to take something like anal and smile and act like you’re having a good time,” Belmond said in the documentary.”

Dear men, I am aware of your fantasies and you know — as the Gentlemen who have had their private dialogs with me — that I’m always (well, almost) game in joining (and helping out with) your daydreams. I’m perfectly understanding what men need to watch and hear from a porn performer. “Yeah, baby, it feels so good… More… More…” The anti-porn feminists (am I a pro-porn feminist then, let us see…) may unconsciously omit the fact that “more… more…” applies on every aspect of human addiction, from overeating, to overdrinking, to overspeeding, overcomplaining and over-you-name-it. This is not strictly limited to porn, or to climate change, or to [insert_your_nemesis_here]…

With our heads cooled down, we all know, men and women, that every more has its own enough. Therefore, to make sure that the kind Gentlemen will follow me, I suggest they take a break, having some sex or watching some porn (my amateur for sure, on Southern Charms), cool down their hot lower head, think with their cerebral upper one and return to read my ramblings about what’s pleasing and what’s not in porn — for the woman, yes!

What I really love is to walk nude in the open air, to get photographed or filmed while sunbathing or gardening naked, to dance and strip in front of the camera, to tease you with my looks, and my curves, to cook in the nude, to work out, to relax or to tense myself for an artistic pose (this includes shouting at my photo man)…

What I just like is spreading my legs wide, playing with my clit in front of the camera, pretending to masturbate or doing custom solo videos.

What I do just for my hubby, or my fans, is the hard-core part of porn. You already know that I never did anal (it’s my virgin end – not taking in account the touches of his tongue) and never will. Why? Because… read the quotes above, once again, if you missed something. Anal will tear your anus! It’s not a biological function, rather a fantastic one — where “fantastic” originates from “fantasy” and is not a synonym for “awesome.”

Should you stop fantasizing? Not at all. Go on, speak out about anal! This is a good way to release the pressure, to free your mind — better than watching how an unknown gal gets her anus teared and even better than trying it on your own anus. Passions can be mentalized and consumed without actually probing them on your body.

Still, pussy penetration and oral sex are covered by biological functions (the latter is more like dessert but nevertheless) and I don’t mind being filmed in the process. My pussy has seen three births (during the third I delivered twins) and it was quite teared by scalpels in dramatic and totally non sexual manners. It’s sewn back and may I say sensitive? This is why I’m no fan of doggy styles, I perform them once in a blue moon and only when on the camera — because I find much more pain than pleasure in this position (think that you remember when I complained to have back aches for days after). What I understand, all too well, is that hubby (and men in general) love to have the woman (or to imagine having her) in all sorts of different and extravagant positions. As much as this desire is legitimate to men, it’s also acceptable for women to express their reserves — especially AFTER they have served their men. Please notice the nuance: I’m not advocating against Kama Sutra here; I just express my personal opinion about what gives me direct pleasure and what pleases me to see while pleasing my man, or my fans with a photo or a film. A sensual woman shouldn’t be a liar — like mimicking an orgasm and saying how awesome it was. Nor a broker: “I’ll suck your cock after you’ll do the dishes.” Instead, I look for love in every sexual gesture that I do, or wish to be done on me. Pain or pleasure are a secondary side note when you’re doing it with your loved one, but when love is absent then pain and pleasure become EVERYTHING! Your spirit falls hostage to sensorial spikes. Your person enters the prison of bone and flesh. Whatever your fetish might be about this, sooner or later, it will affect your health, mentally and physically as well.

Let’s put emotions aside and consider the situation of a coal miner. He chose a perilous job, or he was forced to make this choice. He is supposed to earn more than his fellow proletarians swarming at the surface (not always, but let’s assume so). He is risking his skin, and bone, and life, with every shift that he enters clean and exists dirty. He does this for his family, or for the money that could bring (he thinks) a dream closer to reality. Over time, one or more occupational diseases will nag a coal miner’s health.

Analyze (no pun intended) this like an alien who has no emotion or traditional attachment to social morals of this earth. From an extraterrestrial perspective, there’s no difference between the coal miner and the porn performer.

Consider then a fireman risking his life to save people out of burning buildings. No few men had themselves trapped in marriages where the single sexual remedy remains masturbating in front of a screen. Don’t blame the wife, don’t blame anyone or anything, just gather the facts. The lady inside the screen saves the man, watching her, from his inner fire. Sure, not from his real life situation but, as the fireman is not the architect, nor the policeman, his job is to just water down the fires, porn is not the cure just a remedy (for better or for worse).

I am doing porn although I’d like to call it otherwise, milder names, more appealing to my sensible soul: erotica, nude arts, naturist photography, etc. But when my man wants to film our love-making, my orgasms, his ejaculations, facials on my spectacles, orals and so on… then I can’t hide behind subtle wording anymore! I don’t like it but I accept this by virtue of my love for him. And by virtue of his love for me, he would never hurt me. I feel safe although, many times, I schock myself on the edge of panic. And then I need another orgasm… It’s complicated, I know…

For me, pleasant porn has nothing to do with painful porn. If you gotta take painkillers before filming, then you’re dealing with an occupational hazard. Do something about it, start by thinking with a cool mind: no painkillers, no chemicals, no pressures, take a walk alone. THINK!!!

As about the porn consumers, I’d say — like I did times before — that loving your wife is the best way out of your burning body. Still, for various reasons, it’s more than complicated and you’ll need your regular porn. Good for you. Consider showing more respect to the ladies in pain on your screen. One could be a porn proletarian like the coal miner is in his separate industry. One could be the casual firegal watering down your hormones. One could be just the mature exhibitionist wife enjoying to show herself naked in pictures, yet dragged down to more action by a loving hungry hubby. Why not speak to your wife about such an adventurous possibility?

I wish you a Happy Halloween in pictures and videos, with me pleasantly performing and sharing my love for my man and my desire to show off my nudity. Within the measures of my own satisfaction. Enjoy and comment, bring some controversy to the topic!

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Southern Charm Doris – today carving a Halloween Pumpkin!

 

Mrs Doris Dawn on Youtube – playing in her Polka Dot swimsuit — watch the pics on Southern Charms: Club Update 22.

 

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Clit Rock – Doris dancing naked right above the keen camera — watch the prequel video in the members’ area here on DorisDawn.com — and the sequel video, from the same setting, on Southern Charms videos: Rocking My Clit Up Close.

3 thoughts on “Performing in Pleasant Porn

    1. Yes, you are spot on. I get paid for this. 🙂 Not the fabulous sums some could imagine – gone are the golden days of porn. 😦

      But there’s one more point besides getting paid. It is a psychological one: at my age, a post menopausal woman feels good in her naked skin, has a better understanding of the male sex mechanics and knows to make a little therapy for herself out of this exhibitionism. So, to answer your question: I perform in pleasant porn to get paid and also to feel young and attractive once again. Don’t know which point is the most important so I’d say that both are, for me. How about you?

      Kiss,
      Doris

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