On one hand, all tube sites crave for higher traffic. This is music for them. Intimately, everyone knows that nudity stirs interest and sex sells. Driven by instinct, viewers come and bring traffic to the tube.
On the other hand, sex negative attitudes split in two extremes: either anti-sex (no sex is good enough to talk about) or porn-sex (utopian and painful boyish fantasies).
What matters first and foremost is traffic to the tube (but “don’t you dare make your own traffic from us!”). What also matters is having an ear for flaggers and using their rants as good excuses when ambiguity of terms and definitions needs a push. Life is not fair, got used to this decades ago. So then, for heaven’s sake, why am I sobbing still?
I’m not! This is just a narrative building the case for this post. Today I am Cinderella! Back to the porn ghetto… This new video titled “Trimmed Grass” is sheltered by RedTube. Watch the full video, after the cut!, exclusively on CougarBunnies.com
Sorry, you gotta click that link out, cannot embed Redtube videos into WordPress – not allowed, outside-ghetto policy! And ah, you probably don’t like the ads on the side, the below, the bottom, or even right on top of the video when you pause it. They are profuse, brazen, reminding me of a Seinfeld dialog comparing man’s body to a functional machine (“like driving a Jeep”) as opposed to the woman’s body: “a beautiful work of art.”
Redtube is about how men see women in general. Not necessarily a loved one, a named one, but more likely the concept of women circulating up and down the visceral neuron of cavemen carrying smart phones instead of bats. Nothing wrong! This is what men are, down to one of their inner selves. See? I didn’t say “down to their inner self” because I know that there are more than one. The caveman is not alone down there!
On Redtube I mow the lawn – in my latest video; I play the clitar – in another verboten video trailer; I have my nude gymnastics for voyeurs and I shower on Mozart. Only four videos uploaded by me on Redtube, so far. Five times less than on Youtube or my late Vimeo account. Why? Because Redtube looks, for me, as the perfect ghetto of porn. The ultimate caveman’s wonderland! Far from my vision of beauty, intimacy, lovemaking, cuddling, kissing, comforting, good feeling. But this is where I am right now. Redtube did not forbid my account. I’m pretty sure that my videos are way too “lame” or “soft” or “pussy” compared to the potent porn advertised right and left, top and bottom, “pop overs” and “pop unders.” I don’t think (fingers crossed) that Redtube would seek to ban me for being too soft. There’s everything for everyone and that’s a good strategy for a tube site.
If I haven’t degraded myself enough already, this morning I published a dirty foot fetish video on CougarBunnies.com — after walking bare feet on the soil in my garden, came in to clean the floor and the stairs, showing my nudity and my dirty bare feet to the camera.
Psychoanalysts are still philosophizing about the role played by the foot fetish in Cinderella’s story. Rightly so! Though we’d better reflect more on the main scenario: work is purifying and dreams eventually come true, just stay honest to yourself. Women, like men, have their untold fetishes and fears. Silence brings suffering, expression delivers comfort. Praise the porn ghetto!